First time going to a Jiu Jitsu class

One of the things I wanted to do this year was to improve myself as a person. This can come in terms of skills and in terms of being comfortable with myself. One of the skills I’ve wanted to learn for a while was martial arts. I’ve seen TV shows and read manga about fighting, and it was pretty neat. My dad did martial arts when he was younger. So, when my brother and I were growing up, he would show us some moves. I used to always run away from these scenarios and watch from a safe distance. As I grew older, I developed an aversion to physical contact. It’s not bad enough where I will not shake someone’s hand or hug someone if they are going for a hug, but if I can avoid it, I usually wave my hand as a greeting or farewell. So, I thought that doing a martial art where there is a lot of physical contact would be a type of immersion therapy of sorts.

The people at the class were really welcoming. They taught some techniques to get from a side control or back control position to an arm bar or choke position. Really tiring stuff and I am bruised all over. But I think that it was a good experience. At the end of the class, we had five minute “roll” sessions, which seemed to be just a free-for-all “sparring” type of thing. I totally understand how these professional fighters get so winded. Like just a minute or two of these sessions got me so tired and the partner is putting a lot of pressure on the body. Thankfully you can take breaks. I don’t plan on becoming a master jiu jitsu person, but I do think I’ll go a few more times to this class. I also may try out some other martial arts places around the area to see how I like those.

Jamaican Style Chicken Patty

I bought these chicken patties at Costco. I met a guy in NY who liked chicken patties and the ones that he had smelled good. That is the only reason I bought this.

The patties were flaky and fragrant. The filling was tasty and hot. There wasn’t enough chicken, and the patty did not fill me up. There were a couple of different flavors available, so I’m not sure if this was the best option, but I’m still content with the purchase.

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“Dungeons and Dragons” Movie review

Warning, this review contains spoilers.

I watched the new Dungeons and Dragons (D&D) movie in theaters with a friend from college and it was a fun movie. The movie started off with the cast telling the audience that watching movies in the theaters made us heroes. I never knew that I am both a hero and villain – I watch movies in the theater and in my living room.

The movie wasn’t about how people play the Dungeons and Dragons game online or in person. It was about the D&D universe. The main plot was described through a flashback / story told by the main character Edgin when he was pleading for parole in front of a council.

Basically, Edgin is a bard who is part of the Harper Guild and was living a respectable life with his wife and daughter. After a certain point, he wanted to live a more luxurious lifestyle, so he stole some gold during one of his jobs as a Harper. This theft resulted in fatal consequences – the Red Wizard member tracked down the stolen gold and killed his wife.

After the death of his wife, his life was very tough, and he resorted to more theft to help support himself and his daughter. Edgin learns about a magic relic that can bring someone back to life, so he decides to leave home with some friends in order to retrieve it from a safeguarded Harper vault. In the vault, Edgin and his friend Holga was captured and sent to prison.

The main plot of the movie is the adventure Edgin and the other friends partake to escape prison and get back his daughter and revive his wife. Along the way, there are a bunch of different side quests he has to accomplish in order to get the necessary items to steal back the relic that can revive his wife.

The movie had some serious moments and a lot of funny parts. There were references to the D&D lore and many familiar monsters, such as a mimic and a dragon. There were also some monsters I was not familiar with, such as an owlbear. The special effects and fight scenes were exciting to watch. It was also pretty cool to see the creative use of magic in the movie. I’d recommend this movie to anyone who enjoys watching action, adventure, or fantasy movies.

“A Sun” Review

Warning: this review contains spoilers.

I’m a member of a movie club and one of the movies that we decided to watch was called “A Sun”. I’m more of a casual member, so I don’t participate that often or watch all the movies, but the movies that I have seen through the club have been relatively good. This Taiwanese movie won a few awards and I thought it would be an entertaining watch.

During the movie, I was confused by some of the events that occurred, but the story and the background context unraveled as the movie progressed. I appreciated that the actors looked like normal people and that the story was following a working class family. The opening scene successfully grabbed my attention and I wanted my questions answered in why these kids pulled up at a restaurant and chopped off a guy’s hand. I may have missed it or they may have not mentioned it, but when they said that A-Ho (one of the main characters) got his 14/15 year old girlfriend pregnant, I was wondering how old A-Ho was. Like I feel like this guy was also in high school and he did go to juvenile detention, so he couldn’t have been too old, but to steal a motorcycle with a friend to assault someone with a machete and knife doesn’t sound like something someone should be doing, especially if he’s about to be a parent. Of course, it seemed like he didn’t know that he was a father so maybe he wasn’t thinking very far in advance. They mentioned that this Oden guy had been bullying A-Ho, which is why A-Ho and Radish (A-Ho’s accomplice), pulled up to teach him a lesson, but the assault seemed really unwarranted. Anyways, no need to talk about this incident any longer.

The movie was shot well, some of the scenes, such as the one with the parents talking on the top of a mountain, was really well done. I think that the movie was called “A Sun”, because of the message that A-Ho’s older brother said in the movie. He said that the sun was shining down on everyone and that animals and most people had the ability to shelter themselves from the sun’s rays. However, he felt that he was unable to protect himself from the sun. He later committed suicide due to the unending pressure. As a viewer, one critique I have is that I didn’t really get the sense that he was under that much pressure. Perhaps I don’t understand the Taiwanese culture very well, but it seemed like he was going to school and studying to be a doctor. I definitely think that studying to be a doctor can be tough, but from the scenes I watched, it didn’t seem like his studies were overwhelming him. Maybe the combination of the studies and the societal or familial pressure was too much, but his parents didn’t weren’t giving him that much pressure. They could’ve been more present, but the mom was worried about taking care of the pregnant girlfriend and the baby while working as a beautician and the father was busy with his job teaching driving school.

The performance from Radish was really good. He was so convincing that he annoyed me. I wanted A-Ho to cut this guy out of his life so then he could focus on working and providing with his family, until I realized why Radish was sticking around. Radish was sticking up for his friend, which is why he cut off Oden’s hand. Obviously, he went too far, but if your best friend says that they are getting bullied, then you got to help them out.

The movie had graphic violence and and criminal behavior, so I wouldn’t recommend this movie to everyone. But the drama was convincing and held my attention throughout.

“Of Boys and Men” Review

It was a typical Sunday for me. I woke up, watched a bunch of YouTube videos before looking for volunteer opportunities and making lunch. I wasn’t looking for anything specific in the volunteer opportunities – just something with low commitment, short hours, near public transportation, and something to get me out of the apartment.

During my browsing the internet, I came across the New Yorker article “What’s The Matter With Men?”. This was an interesting read about how the modern man is falling behind the modern woman in various aspects and it introduced me to the book “Of Boys and Men”.

The book describes the current world where boys and men are not doing as well as girls and women academically and in the workplace. The author Richard V. Reeves acknowledges that there is still more progress to be made to improve women and their standing in society, but we are losing track of another population that needs more help – particularly boys and men who have less financial means.

I’d recommend everyone to read this book. It does a good job at highlighting some strengths and flaws with the mainstream perspectives about men and women in society and offers some ideas about how to improve society as a whole, instead of zero sum game between men and women.

Hong Kong Covid Travel Guide – Dec 2022

Hey, it’s your boy Jeffrey with all the covid information you need to know in order to travel to Hong Kong as of December 2022.

First, in order to get on your flight, you’ll need a GREEN QR code. You can fill out the information in https://www.chp.gov.hk/hdf/ in order to get this QR code by first selecting “Select Health Declaration Form” and filling out the form. When you finish submitting the form, you should take a screenshot or picture of the website with the QR code so you can show it to the airline attendants.

Second, in order to eat at restaurants, you’ll need a BLUE QR code. You can fill out the information in https://www.chp.gov.hk/vac-df/# in order to get the blue QR code, which is the vaccine pass. You’ll need to show this to all restaurants when you want to dine in. You can choose to download the LeaveHomeSafe mobile app from the Google Play or App Store to help you store that QR code. One thing to note is that you need at least 3 doses of a covid vaccine in order to get the blue QR code.

Great, that’s all you need to know about QR codes. In terms of the covid testing you need to do, it gets a little bit more confusing. Here’s the official guidance by Hong Kong https://www.coronavirus.gov.hk/eng/inbound-travel.html

Basically, you’ll need to take a self administered covid tests for 5 days after you arrive in Hong Kong. On the second day after arriving, you’ll need to take a PCR covid test at a government affiliated site. This PCR covid test will can be scheduled through this website https://booking.communitytest.gov.hk/form/index.jsp . In order to schedule the PCR test, make sure you have a phone that can receive text messages from Hong Kong. You’ll need to bring your identification and the PCR test schedule confirmation when you actually go to the location to get tested. The self administered testing information should be uploaded to https://www.chp.gov.hk/ecmss . You should receive an email from eCMSS@dh.gov.hk after you arrive in Hong Kong with some additional details. In that email titled “[不要回覆]關於抵達香港後的注意事項及強制檢測的規定[DO NOT REPLY]Points to Note after Arrival to Hong Kong”, you’ll find the Reference number needed for uploading your test results online. One thing to note, you’ll need to check your temperature as part of uploading your test results, so having a thermometer will be helpful. You can also buy a thermometer in Hong Kong.

Finally, it is mandatory to wear a mask in public.

For a TLDR:

GREEN QR code: needed for flight

BLUE QR code: needed for dining in restaurants

6 at home tests have to be done once per day (day 0 – day 5)

A PCR test will have to be scheduled and taken on Day 2.

Wear a mask in public places

Cool, that’s the bulk of the information you need to know as of now. Hopefully the guidelines get even easier to follow in the future!

Vietnam Observations

I visited Vietnam for the first time and during the trip, I saw some “interesting” aspects of the country piqued my interest.

1. Motorbikes are popular

In Vietnam, it seems like there are a lot more motorbikes and mopeds than cars. Everyone drives motorbikes including students and adults. Motorbikes can fit up to 4 people (2 adults and 2 children). Some of the students driving the motorbikes looked pretty young, like in middle school.

I think one consequence of this is that the driving is a bit hectic. However, the people use honking as communication to let other motorists know that they intend to pass, which helps improve road safety.

2. Growing vegetables in countryside

While driving in the countryside, I noticed that the majority of the greenhouses have a roof with an opening. Imagine the roof is a semi circle – half of the roof has a different height than the other half of the roof, so the top of the building has a long opening. It seems like this may have something to do with air circulation. Another thing I noticed was that people set up makeshift gardens in their concrete driveways. They put out tarp on top of the driveway and then laid out dirt in rows. I couldn’t tell what they planned to grow in these gardens, but I suspect that they would be used to grow small vegetables, like baby tomatoes or small greens.

3. License plates have punctuation

I noticed that there are license plates that have dashes and decimal points. A few examples:

  • ###-####
  • ###-###.##
  • ##-## ####
  • ##-## ###.##

I’m not sure if there are meanings behind the dashes or the decimal points, but the dash only exists if there are 4 digits in the first section and the decimal point only exists if there are 5 digits in the second section. There is no indication for city or state as far as I could tell.

4. Pink hand soap

I feel like over half of the bathrooms I visited over my Vietnam trip had the same pink hand soap. I don’t know if they have a monopoly on the hand soap market or if this brand is just the cheapest option, but I thought it was pretty shocking.

5. Random animals walking around

During this trip, I saw a bunch of random animals walking around the streets and highway. Chicken, lizards, flies, mosquitoes, cats, dogs, oxen, and perhaps some more. Most of them seemed to just be chilling and trying to find food – these animals seemed to either be wild or stray.

Closing thoughts

I think Vietnam is a good country to visit. The food is tasty and relatively inexpensive. There are a number of activities for people to enjoy in the cities. The range of temperatures between morning and night can be large depending on where you are in the country, so looking up the weather forecast is helpful to determine how to dress for the day. One aspect I didn’t realize until this trip was that Vietnam is a large country in terms amount of land so traveling from one city to another can take a long time.

I have some more minor observations from the trip that I can talk about in the comments or in another blog post, but I think these 5 points are good enough for now.

Day in the Life of a Software Engineer Oncall

I’ve seen a bunch of videos about software engineers and a day in their lives. Most of them seem pretty glamorous with their nice offices and desk setups and their fancy perks. I was thinking of filming my own, but then I realized that I don’t want to learn how to edit videos and I don’t actually care about filming something like this. So, I’ll just write about it.

  • Wake up around 8:30 to 9 am.
  • Check my phone to see if I’m going to get paged due to an off-hours event.
  • Wash my face, take a shower, brush my teeth.
  • Eat some cereal for breakfast – no milk.
  • Respond to Slack messages and and customer tickets.
  • Check the stock market.
  • Attend the daily stand up meeting and any meetings about related to projects that I’m working on.
  • Cook and eat lunch, sometimes while attending a meeting.
  • Stop working around 5 or 6 pm, but stay available to customer reach outs throughout the night just in case they run into issues

Usually there aren’t any issues, just a lot of tickets to go through and customers reaching out for assistance over various different platforms. But when there are issues, I have to investigate the issues and reach out to the team when I need assistance. Being oncall used to be a lot more stressful. For example, I used to have hearing problems where I would think my pager was going off even though there weren’t any issues. Nowadays, it has gotten a lot more routine. It is still tiring though. I got my management telling me to do some tasks and I got customers telling me to do tasks as well. The customers live around the world, so the different timezones are annoying to deal with.

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